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Supporting a Partner Without Becoming the Manager: Executive Function Differences in Relationships
Supporting a partner can slowly shift into managing them, especially when executive function differences are involved. In this post, I explore how uneven responsibility shows up in relationships and how to build shared systems without slipping into control. Because love should feel like partnership, not project management.
Paige Herman
Feb 164 min read


When the World Is Loud: Why Everything Feels Like Too Much Right Now
When everything feels like too much, it’s often not a personal failure but a nervous system response to constant stress and emotional input. This piece explores how high sensitivity, ADHD, and ongoing exposure to political stress and collective emotion can quietly overwhelm even deeply caring people. It unpacks why staying informed can feel exhausting, how overwhelm builds beneath the surface, and why protecting your energy can be a meaningful way to stay present, compassiona
Paige Herman
Jan 285 min read


ADHD: It's not an excuse, it's an explanation
ADHD is often misunderstood as a lack of effort when it’s actually an explanation of how the brain works. This post breaks down what ADHD explains, why January feels especially challenging, and how support, not pressure, leads to sustainable change for adults, parents, and students with ADHD.
Paige Herman
Jan 93 min read


ADHD & Holiday Small Talk: Why Socializing can Feel so Hard
Holiday small talk can feel exhausting, awkward, or surprisingly energizing for people with ADHD. This post explores why ADHD holiday small talk feels so hard and how to navigate social gatherings with more ease and self-awareness.
Paige Herman
Dec 24, 20255 min read


Grateful, Overstimulated, and Still Showing Up: A Thanksgiving Survival Guide
Thanksgiving is loud, emotional, cozy, overwhelming, and beautiful… sometimes all at once. If you love the connection but dread the chaos, this post is for you. A gentle, realistic guide to enjoying the holiday without pretending, over-performing, or burning yourself out.
Paige Herman
Nov 27, 20254 min read


“Wait, Did I Say That Out Loud?” Understanding ADHD and Social Cues
Blurted something out and thought, Wait, did I just say that out loud? You’re not alone. Learn how ADHD shapes social awareness—and how a little humor and patience can go a long way in keeping connections strong.
Paige Herman
Nov 12, 20257 min read
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