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Deep Pressure for ADHD: Why It Helps You Feel Regulated
Deep pressure can help ADHD brains feel calmer, more focused, and more regulated. From weighted blankets to tight hugs, this kind of input gives the body a sense of grounding and stability. For many neurodivergent individuals, it’s not just comforting, it actually helps the brain settle enough to engage. Understanding how deep pressure works can make a big difference in how we support focus, emotions, and everyday functioning.
Paige Herman
Apr 33 min read


When ADHD Doesn’t Quite Fit: Understanding Cognitive Disengagement Syndrome
If I’m being honest… daylight savings hit hard this year. Not just for me, but for my clients too. Over the past week I’ve had several clients walk into sessions looking like their brain battery was hovering around 10%. Slower thinking. More staring into space. A lot of “wait… what was I doing again?” And honestly? Same. But what really caught my attention was how many clients said some version of the same thing: “I don’t know why, but I feel like I can’t keep my eyes open.”
Paige Herman
Mar 166 min read


Supporting a Partner Without Becoming the Manager: Executive Function Differences in Relationships
Supporting a partner can slowly shift into managing them, especially when executive function differences are involved. In this post, I explore how uneven responsibility shows up in relationships and how to build shared systems without slipping into control. Because love should feel like partnership, not project management.
Paige Herman
Feb 164 min read


When the World Is Loud: Why Everything Feels Like Too Much Right Now
When everything feels like too much, it’s often not a personal failure but a nervous system response to constant stress and emotional input. This piece explores how high sensitivity, ADHD, and ongoing exposure to political stress and collective emotion can quietly overwhelm even deeply caring people. It unpacks why staying informed can feel exhausting, how overwhelm builds beneath the surface, and why protecting your energy can be a meaningful way to stay present, compassiona
Paige Herman
Jan 285 min read


ADHD: It's not an excuse, it's an explanation
ADHD is often misunderstood as a lack of effort when it’s actually an explanation of how the brain works. This post breaks down what ADHD explains, why January feels especially challenging, and how support, not pressure, leads to sustainable change for adults, parents, and students with ADHD.
Paige Herman
Jan 93 min read


ADHD & Holiday Small Talk: Why Socializing can Feel so Hard
Holiday small talk can feel exhausting, awkward, or surprisingly energizing for people with ADHD. This post explores why ADHD holiday small talk feels so hard and how to navigate social gatherings with more ease and self-awareness.
Paige Herman
Dec 24, 20255 min read
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