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Supporting a Partner Without Becoming the Manager: Executive Function Differences in Relationships
Supporting a partner can slowly shift into managing them, especially when executive function differences are involved. In this post, I explore how uneven responsibility shows up in relationships and how to build shared systems without slipping into control. Because love should feel like partnership, not project management.
Paige Herman
Feb 164 min read


When the World Is Loud: Why Everything Feels Like Too Much Right Now
When everything feels like too much, it’s often not a personal failure but a nervous system response to constant stress and emotional input. This piece explores how high sensitivity, ADHD, and ongoing exposure to political stress and collective emotion can quietly overwhelm even deeply caring people. It unpacks why staying informed can feel exhausting, how overwhelm builds beneath the surface, and why protecting your energy can be a meaningful way to stay present, compassiona
Paige Herman
Jan 285 min read


ADHD & Holiday Small Talk: Why Socializing can Feel so Hard
Holiday small talk can feel exhausting, awkward, or surprisingly energizing for people with ADHD. This post explores why ADHD holiday small talk feels so hard and how to navigate social gatherings with more ease and self-awareness.
Paige Herman
Dec 24, 20255 min read


Grateful, Overstimulated, and Still Showing Up: A Thanksgiving Survival Guide
Thanksgiving is loud, emotional, cozy, overwhelming, and beautiful… sometimes all at once. If you love the connection but dread the chaos, this post is for you. A gentle, realistic guide to enjoying the holiday without pretending, over-performing, or burning yourself out.
Paige Herman
Nov 27, 20254 min read


“Wait, Did I Say That Out Loud?” Understanding ADHD and Social Cues
Blurted something out and thought, Wait, did I just say that out loud? You’re not alone. Learn how ADHD shapes social awareness—and how a little humor and patience can go a long way in keeping connections strong.
Paige Herman
Nov 12, 20257 min read


When Feelings Hijack Focus: How Emotional Regulation Is an Executive Function
Emotional regulation and executive function are connected brain processes that control focus, behavior, and self-management. Strengthening these skills helps children and adults manage emotions, improve organization, and build resilience.
Paige Herman
Oct 20, 20254 min read


Recognition Responsive Euphoria: The Positive Counterpart to Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria
While Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) is widely recognized among individuals with ADHD, autism, and executive dysfunction, its lesser-known counterpart—Recognition Responsive Euphoria (RRE)—offers an equally powerful emotional experience. RRE describes the heightened motivation and emotional uplift that follows positive recognition. Understanding RRE provides critical insight into the role of external validation in supporting neurodivergent individuals.
Paige Herman
Apr 22, 20253 min read


Exploring Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) in ADHD and ASD: Understanding, Collaboration, and Support
The blog describes PDA, linked to ADHD/ASD, highlighting resistance to demands over control loss.
Paige Herman
Jan 22, 20255 min read


Breaking the Cycle: How ADHD Relates to Compulsive Holiday Spending
Navigating the holiday season can be a challenge, especially for individuals with ADHD, where the impulse-driven nature of the condition may
Paige Herman
Dec 6, 20244 min read


Navigating the Holiday Season with ADHD: Simplifying Celebrations
The holiday season can be a source of joy and stress, especially for those with ADHD. This post offers strategies to simplify celebrations.
Paige Herman
Nov 23, 20244 min read


Nurturing Love and Understanding: Celebrating Valentine's Day with ADHD
Discover how ADHDers a navigate Valentine's Day with ease, from mindful planning to alternative celebrations. Love is for everyone!
Paige Herman
Feb 14, 20242 min read


ADHD & Executive Functioning - Part 1
Executive functioning is like the brain’s management system — it helps us plan, organize, and follow through. For people with ADHD, this system doesn’t always run smoothly. In Part 1 of this series, we’ll unpack what executive functions actually are, how they connect to ADHD, and why “trying harder” isn’t the solution most people think it is.
Paige Herman
Nov 3, 20234 min read


Welcome to Turn the Paige, a Blog devoted to the ADHD Unique Mind
Welcome to Turn the Paige — a blog devoted to understanding and empowering the ADHD unique mind. Here you’ll find expert insights, practical strategies, and relatable stories that help parents, educators, and individuals with ADHD build confidence, improve executive functioning, and embrace neurodiversity. Whether you’re seeking ADHD tips, advocacy guidance, or a sense of community, this is your space to learn, grow, and feel seen.
Paige Herman
Oct 1, 20233 min read
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